2014-06-07_0134Taylor and Jack’s wedding day was ridiculously rainy. When I say “ridiculously rainy” I mean that it was a non-stop torrential downpour ALL day [and for several days leading up to the big day]. Their outdoor ceremony under grand oak trees that we planned for over a year had to be tented and we had to construct an aisle runner out of mulch so that the bridal parties could make their way to the ceremony, holding umbrellas, without walking through mud. You would think that the rain [and all of these “Plan B’s”] would really put a damper on the Bride and Groom’s day, right? Not for this amazing couple- Taylor and Jack actually got engaged in the rain! So, when they were given the option to move the ceremony into the indoor reception area, they didn’t even consider it. They embraced the elements! They even had a foot washing ritual planned for their wedding ceremony. In addition to the deep sentimental and religious value of this unique tradition, it proved to be incredibly useful for Taylor’s slightly dirty {hey, the mulch could only help so much!} feet!

So, what exactly is a foot washing ceremony, you ask?

In a Christian wedding, foot washing symbolizes the moment when Jesus washed his disciples’ feet at the Last Supper (John 13:1-17) to display his humility and commitment of service to them. By washing each others’ feet, the Bride and Groom are therefore demonstrating their commitment to serve each other humbly in marriage. This ritual is personally one of my favorite unity ceremonies.

Taylor and Jack had a beautiful water pitcher, towel and chair set off to the side from their stunning ceremony arbor for the ritual. After the Pastor explained the meaning behind the practice to their intrigued guests, Taylor and Jack pulled the aforementioned items front and center and took turns kneeling on the soggy grass, washing and then drying each others’ feet. It was truly a beautiful few minutes, and everybody at the ceremony felt honored to witness such an intimate and obviously meaningful moment between the newlyweds. At the end of the ceremony, Taylor and Jack danced down the aisle as husband and wife to “Oh, Happy Day”. Could they be any cuter?!  Talk about #marriagegoals.

Vivian Greene said it best: “Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass… It’s about learning to dance in the rain.”

These personal details are what memorable wedding days are made of!

To see more pictures from Taylor and Jack’s lovely big day, visit http://www.borrowedandblue.com/new-orleans/weddings/taylor-jack AND https://www.theknot.com/real-weddings/a-traditional-elegant-wedding-at-stella-plantation-in-braithwaite-louisiana-album .

Looking for other alternatives to the traditional unity candle?

Some of my other favorites are listed here on Best Bride 101: http://www.bestbride101.com/10-fun-alternatives-to-using-a-unity-candle/ .